What we all people do is, we make a vertical line in our life, and that's absolutely fine nothing wrong in that, but in course of that we go in a loop of hurting our self and others. We priorities people sometime someone, who don't need to be one.
We should work on nullifying our vertical line and convert it to a horizontal one, we can't be ideal but keep only those in that who deserve to be there else, treat everyone in same manner, as like horizontal line; Don't be judgmental and thinks that I'm comparing relation with some form of line, just saying how we should be, because today's only certain things matter, most people around you don't care about you and doing all the things go in vein.They always keep them self forward and convince you, you fought for them but at last you will find yourself alone in that ship.
One line from one of fab movie, "RAANJHANAA", 'Murari sabko chaiye, par Murari bana kisi ko nahi'!
we all are Murari in someone life and that's fine but, think you deserve to be there or not:\
Be brave enough to heal yourself!!
Yushu